One couple. Too many pensions. One complicated question.

When can
we retire?

We thought retirement planning meant adding up the pensions and seeing whether there was enough. It didn't. So we worked through it, challenged it, got things wrong, changed our minds - and learned a lot.

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Our experience, not financial advice.

Mike and Karen enjoying an adventure together
The other half of the story

Before the spreadsheets, there was a life.

We got together in 1999. Then two became four. Careers, kids, mortgages, school runs, holidays and ordinary family chaos filled the next couple of decades. Retirement wasn't top of the agenda.

Mike and Karen in the early years The children when the family grew Home learning during lockdown Home exercise during lockdown Family walk

The money matters because the life matters. We're not trying to win retirement with the biggest spreadsheet. We're trying to make the next set of photographs possible.

Then the question changed

What does the next chapter look like?

The kids got older. We were still us. And retirement stopped feeling like something that happened to other people in the distant future. We wanted to know what sort of life we could afford - and whether all the bits of money we'd accumulated actually fitted together.

Find it

Old jobs, pension pots, guaranteed pensions, State Pensions, savings and debts.

Understand it

What each pension actually does, when it can be used and what could be lost.

Model it

Put the mortgage, pensions, ISAs, tax and spending on one household timeline.

Challenge it

Ask what happens when markets, work, spending or life refuse to follow the plan.

Thirty-seven spreadsheets later

Things that changed our thinking.

01

Find everything first.

You can't plan around money you don't know exists.

02

Look at the household.

The best decision for one pension may be rubbish for the household as a whole.

03

Timing matters.

When income arrives can matter as much as the annual amount.

04

Tax belongs in the model.

Where retirement spending comes from can change what you actually keep.

05

Flexibility has value.

ISAs, pension pots and guaranteed income can do different jobs.

06

Try to break the plan.

A smooth spreadsheet is not the same thing as a robust retirement.

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Want the longer version?

We've turned our retirement-planning journey into a free PDF - the questions we asked, the things we got wrong, the assumptions we challenged and what we learned about pensions, mortgages, ISAs, tax and guaranteed income.

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No personalised recommendations. No magic retirement number. Just the questions and lessons that helped us understand our own plan.

Mike and daughter by the sea